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A gay guy and his fat friend talking about everything! We've got over 30 years of stories to share about stuff we love, stuff that annoys us, people we've known, places we've been, and things we've seen. Geeky, silly, and always opinionated. NAMES ARE CHANGED TO PROTECT THE GUILTY!

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Sep 27, 2018

This episode was inspired by Jamel Miles, the sweet little nine year old boy in Denver, CO who committed suicide after being bullied in school for being gay. We share our experiences with bullying and the lasting effects it can have on the psyche. School bullies, masc-for-masc bullies in the gay community, family...


Aug 17, 2018

Sex! Sex! Sex! (Also gender!)

The more we think about gender, the more fascinated we are by even just the IDEA of it. What is a man? What is a woman? And why do some people refuse to bathe?

But first, Amelia is gonna drop some serious anthropology knowledge on ya, while she rips apart those paleo people and their stupid...


Apr 13, 2018

This was our first time attending HavenCon http://www.havencontx.com, a LGBTQIA+ geek & gaming con in Austin, and it was so fabulous we have to talk about it!

Hear us gush about the con's inclusivity and diversity, the wonderful people we met, how much we love hanging out with furries and the fur-adjacent, the Grand...


Sep 22, 2016

As we continue our conversation about gender, we talk about tone and attitude in interactions, particularly on social media, and whether or not people are truly willing to learn from each other. In other words, shit gets real. Like, really real.

Maybe you're non-binary, maybe you've never even thought about gender...


Sep 22, 2016

(Get it? 101? Binary? Aw. come on.)

We've been talking to each other about gender for a while, and thought it was time to share our thoughts.

Listen to two cisgender folks get super nerdy about word definitions and analyze the hell out of them, and the way human brains use words to categorize people.

Maybe you're...